Why you’re obsessed with the guy (or girl) who doesn’t want you back? It’s a lot deeper of an issue than “they’re just so amazing I can’t move on.” Sure they can be amazing and awesome but if someone doesn’t want or have the bandwidth for a relationship then that’s it, end of story. It sucks but idealizing them and making them into something they’re not won’t help you process and accept this, making them a real person and taking the shine off of them will though. #datingadvice #busy #dating101 #